First LOVE never DIE?

“Is IT REALLY POSSIBLE TO FORGET YOUR FIRST LOVE?

- Probably not. Because a piece of you forever remains left behind in the heart of the one you loved – a piece no future lover could ever get. But sometimes you need to understand that the person you love may not be made for you. It’s doesn't really matter how much you love someone until or unless they feel your importance in their life. Let them feel this simple truth that being someone’s first love may be great, but to be their last love is beyond perfect. Of course, you should express your true feelings of love to the person understand and feel the love you keep in your heart. If they don’t feel it, you must not force the person to love you. Because you can’t.Remember, the person you who is in your mind the moment you open your eyes after a long sleep is the reason either of your happiness or your pain. If this person is your first love, you really need to work on it if it gives you pain or if the person you loved for the first time is no longer in your life. It’s true that first love never dies, but true love bury it alive. I am not telling you that it’s going to be easy. I am telling you that it’s going to be worth it. It’s not about forgetting your first love. It’s about giving yourself another chance to live with happiness. Your life is a journey of learning to love yourself first and extending that love to others in every encounter. Read How to Find Happiness in Your Life?It is never suggested not to fall in love. But love the person who loves you. Love the person who understands your feelings and stands beside you in your problems. I understand that you would love to be with the person you love. But it is more important to find a person who truly loves you. Someday someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else.”

                                                                                          -jhudz #socialmeems

Value of your Happiness

“So How to Start a New Life?

-Don’t try to forget the person you love. Because trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew. Trying to forget being hurt by someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met. So just try to love someone else. Because, the more you will try to forget the person, the more you will remember. This will make your life difficult to live. If someone is making your life miserable more than they make you happy, it really doesn't matter how much you love them. You need to let them go. It may be difficult. But your own happiness is more important. Look for someone else whom you can love and be loved in return. Read How to Love Someone Unconditionally?Now if you are able to love someone else, choose the second one as a part of your life. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen in love for the second. Always keep love in your heart. Because a life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. Do what makes you happy and be done with all the rest.

                                    

Universal Fact

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The Rules of Separation: How to End a Relationship With Dignity

The rules of separation are simple. Be fair, be strong, be understanding. Unfortunately, some people don’t follow these rules and make separation doubly hard. But if you really want to make a separation work, you at least must resolve to follow the rules. Maintain your own integrity, no matter what the provocation. 

Rule 1: Be Fair. By separating, you are dividing a life that was one into two. One house, one common goal. Be prepared to give a little on the tedious business of Mine and Yours. While it is just and right and proper that assets equally gained should be equally shared, allow your ex the dignity of retaining what he or she alone was responsible for acquiring, whether that be material goods or public respect.While you will need counsel, hopefully from people close to you, listen to yourself when speaking of your ex. Speak only the honest truth as you know it. Do not embroider or mislead anyone else about your reasons for the separation. If you have instigated it, accept that responsibility, and make your reasons clear. If they are good to you, that is all that is required.If there are children involved, then the requirement to be fair becomes crucial. Unless your ex behaved in an unacceptable way toward the children, acknowledge that they have a right to be able to continue their relationship. It is only fair to accept your reasons for the separation are your own - you may divorce your ex, but the children will not. If you can look at the situation with integrity and see no reason why the children should not be with their other parent, work toward a solution that will allow access and maximum consolation to all concerned.Even if your ex decides to use the children against you, maintain your integrity and do not stoop to similar tactics. Be fair in their presence (you can rage when you are alone or with someone you trust). Integrity shines through. Never doubt that.

Rule 2: Be Strong. You will need to be strong, for separation is rarely easy. You and your ex may be wounded, worn out from years of conflict or simply angry over perceived betrayal. The friends you have in common may feel themselves obliged to take sides, and people you thought held you in high regard may show their preference for your ex.Do not be afraid to ask those who stand by you for advice and support. Some of them may have gone through similar experiences, and be glad to share their insight. When a hand is offered, grasp it. But think of this as only a way to make you stronger, not dependent. When a dream is shattered, the temptation to curl up in a ball and cry is irresistible and you may do this for a while - but make up your mind that you will give into the grief of a broken dream once only, then you will stand and fight to retain yourself and find your own dream.

Rule 3: Be Understanding. People may drift away, your ex may make life difficult, your children may blame you. All you have is your own sense of what is right. But don’t be blind to the pain of others. Understand that they will have these feelings, and that their hurt and bewilderment may be directed at you.Time, it is true, is a great healer, but not if a wound is allowed to fester with no healing power given to it. As in everything you do, your own integrity and sure knowledge of what is right for you is the balm you will use to heal the hurt. Remain steadfast in your love of those who may be bewildered by the separation, understand that they cannot see into your heart or mind. Understand that it will take time in some cases to adjust to a totally new situation. But if you are fair, strong and understanding, they will come to see that while one relationship in your life has changed, theirs with you, and with your ex, need not change.Three simple rules, hard to follow but in the end, sure to heal the past, as long as there is genuine goodwill.

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                                                                        -jhudz30 #socialmeems

Trivia #1-16

Giraffes have black tongues.
A cat has 32 muscles in each ear.
Some frogs can be frozen solid, then thawed, and continue living.
Ostriches stick their heads in the sand to look for water.
A duck’s quack has no echo.
Cats can make over 100 vocal sounds, while dogs can only make 10.
Texas horned toads can shoot blood out of the corners of their eyes.
Starfish have eight eyes–one at the end of each leg.
Honeybees have hair on their eyes.
The only bird that can fly backwards is the Hummingbird.
Alligators cannot move backwards.
A starfish doesn’t have a brain.
Flamingos can only eat with their heads upside down.
An ostrich’s eye is bigger than its brain.
The Arctic tern flies an average of 22,000 miles a year!
An eagle can kill a young deer and fly away with it.

                                             -http://www.funology.com/facts-about-animals/